Change of Heart

A short version of how—and why—I changed my relationship with alcohol. I’ve had a lot of relationships, and although I really do want to write about all of them, there’s one in particular that inspired me to begin writing in the first place. More specifically, it was the end of my longest relationship that allowed me to remember that I’ve always… Continue reading Change of Heart

Sisters First

Being in close community with other men has freed me to love other men as brothers—and being immersed in that brotherhood has brought something else to the surface, something that I summarize with the maxim “Sisters First.”  Sisters First is my philosophy in relating with women. While no shorthand is perfect, this how I first… Continue reading Sisters First

Relationships and Sex — Feb 22, 2021

Have you ever considered how your relationships with other men relate to your love and sex relationships? They do—deep, honest, even intimate relationships with the other men in your life can and do serve as invaluable training and proving ground for your relating skills, and improving your relating with other men can dramatically improve your… Continue reading Relationships and Sex — Feb 22, 2021